Okay, I do not mean to hurt anyone or take away form anyone else's pain, but I am so tired of people telling me that their miscarriage is in some way the same as me losing my girls. It is not the same. I have had three miscarriages and none of them in anyway compare to what I physically and emotionally endured when losing Sophia and Ellie. I felt my girls moving inside of me, I bonded with them for 21 weeks, I gave BIRTH to them, held their perfect little bodies in my arms, and kissed their sweet heads. I had to make choices about their remains that no parent should ever have to do...this WAS NOT a miscarriage and for one to say they know my pain because they too had a miscarriage is simply not true!
I sympathize with those out there who have suffered miscarriages. I know it is hard, I've been there and I am sorry for your loss too. It is definitely a loss. I don't mean to sound callus or insensitive but I have been on both sides of the fence and while they are both difficult in their own ways, they are not the same.
I hope no one has taken offense to this post (how arrogant for me to assume you are even reading it :) but I just had to vent...
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