Hutch's grandma was taken to the hospital by ambulance this evening. They believe she has suffered a stroke. She is in surgery with a 50% chance of survival. Her conditions, if she does survive, are questionable at this point. Hutch's grandpa, who is the happiest, most jovial man around, is having a difficult time as you can imagine.
Hutch's grandma has told him before that she has a connection to our girls. He is at the hospital right now with his family. I want to be there too...I do not want her to die, and I do not want to her die before I have the chance to talk to her. I know that sounds very selfish, but I need to tell her to take care of my girls, to find them and be with them until I can be there myself. I don't know how it all works up there, but this is the best case I can think of for now.
Update: She has made it through surgery and her chances of survival have increased since she did make it through. Hopefully I will not feel as if I have to tell her my thoughts above. I know her husband and the rest of the family are not ready to let go of her, and neither am I.
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I am glad to read the update on her. I hope she recovers well.
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Hope she continues to do well. I will keep her in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteI understand your thoughts! Before I tell you why, you need to understand my husband's family. His mother and father divorced when he was young. She remarried when he was 13 yrs old. Six months later she passed away. His biological father then passed away a few years later. His stepfather then later remarried so she is like I guess his Step-step mother (?). So, after Colin and Courtney died my husband's step-step mother came to us and said..."I saw Marilyn and she said don't worry I have the babies". That still to this day comforts me so much. I never asked her if it was in a dream or what because it didn't really matter to me. I love knowing that my MIL was waiting there for them :)
ReplyDeleteSo, I am glad that his Grandma is doing well. I am sure when it is her time that she will scoop up Ellie and Sophia in her arms and hold them until you can :)
I'm so glad she's doing better. Hope you get some sleep.
ReplyDeleteOh, Tina, sending much love as you get through this time. Good to hear she made it through surgery. THinking of you all as you navigate this road of recovery. xo
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear of the update. For sure keep us postd and she iwll continue to be in my thoughts and prayers!
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I am glad to hear that she made it out of surgery. I will pray for your family. I know what a rough time this is.
ReplyDeleteHappy to hear she made it out of surgery. I am hoping for the best!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad of the update - thinking of you all, and hoping things continue to improve.
ReplyDelete((many hugs)) and a speedy recovery for your Grandma-in-law. The update sounds positive.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad she is doing better. I hope everything turns out fine.
ReplyDeleteIt was so weird to read your post, though. My mom called me to tell me that my grandmother's SIL was going to be home on hospice after a battle with pancreatic cancer. I have not spent a great deal of time with this great aunt of mine but throughout my life I have had several visits with her and have many memories of her and her family. I felt compelled to write her though and send a card before she passed. I sent her a note with many memories in there and thanked her for the card she sent went Chase passed away. I sent her a picture and told her that if she saw Chase before I did to give him a big love from me and tell him I'd see him soon. Part of me thought it was kinda crazy to do that and I never heard from anyone that they got the card. She passed away two days ago, though, and I hope she found my sweet boy. I would have loved for her to meet him on earth, but that didnt happen. After reading your post, though, I don't feel so crazy about what I did. Thanks for sharing and sending you hugs.
Glad shes improving! Sending Prayers!
ReplyDeleteI remember when my sister's mother in law passed away (this was just a couple months after we lost Akul), SUnil bought amongst other flowers, a white rose for her funeral services. As I kept the single blossoming bud on her, I silently begged her to give this to Akul. It is just what a mother does.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad to read that she made it through the surgery! Many prayers that she will recover fully!!((hugs))
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Saying many prayers for your grandma
ReplyDeleteWishing the best for grandma. And I don't think you're crazy for wanting to talk to her. My Grandmother died the day Bridgitte's heart stopped beating, and I have always hoped they waited for each other and that they were together. I didn't find out about my Grandma until weeks later, and I found out a few months later that St. Brigid is sometimes called the Mary of Ireland. My grandma's name is Mary...
ReplyDeleteI hope your GIL has a good week, the first week is the most important indicator of the recoverythat will continue after a stroke, and the first 6 mo.s are the most important.
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Thinking of you and your family Tina. I'm so glad to hear that Hutch's grandma survived the surgery and I hope she makes a full recovery. xo
ReplyDeleteSo glad to hear an update, Tina. Will keep everyone in my thoughts and hope for a full recovery.
ReplyDeleteHugs to you.
I hope that things are continuing to go well. Hugs and prayers...
ReplyDeleteI understand all too well.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad she made it through surgery and hope she contines to gain strength and health every day.
I am glad she made it through the surgery and I hope she continues to improve. Keep her and your family in my thoughts and prayers!
ReplyDeleteTina, thinking and praying for Hutch's grandmother and your family.
ReplyDeleteI'm praying for Hutch's grandma!!
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