It does suck and is so painful, those early months, weeks are not so gentle, but the days get better, they will always be in our hearts, but this time is so important for you to take care of yourself and cocoon yourself in good people that are supportive, eat well, try and sleep well, it's so very hard, the bond that you have with them is so very strong..the days do get better, but this is your time to grieve so allow that...they are your gorgeous daughters.. Louisaxx
Louisa, Thank you so much for your kind words and support. I am so thankful that there are people like you that understand what I am feeling. I wish none of us knew, but unfortunately that is not the case. Thanks!! Tina
Hi...I am Tina, wife to Hutch, my very best friend, who I would be lost without and mother to four wonderful children. Our super smart son Brady is 13, our precious daughter Emma is 6, and we have beautiful identical twin girls, Sophia & Ellie. Our world was forever changed when we lost our twins on April 25, 2009. This blog is part of my "recovery" as I figure out how to live without two of my children here with me.
It does suck and is so painful, those early months, weeks are not so gentle, but the days get better, they will always be in our hearts, but this time is so important for you to take care of yourself and cocoon yourself in good people that are supportive, eat well, try and sleep well, it's so very hard, the bond that you have with them is so very strong..the days do get better, but this is your time to grieve so allow that...they are your gorgeous daughters..
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Louisa,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind words and support. I am so thankful that there are people like you that understand what I am feeling. I wish none of us knew, but unfortunately that is not the case. Thanks!!
Tina
No, it is not...fair I mean.
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GREAT comment.....I feel this same way from time to time. It's just NOT fair! Hang in there! Angie
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